Embrace your authentic identity and (finally) have a healthy relationship.
Stop Settling, Over-Functioning, and Losing Yourself in Love.
Attract a partner who cherishes who you really are—without compromising your values, your boundaries, or your freedom.
Coaching with me may help you if:
You don’t know who you “should be” with.
You don’t know how to choose someone or what is really a “red flag” or what you should “help him with.”
You don’t know how to be in touch with your own wants or feelings.
You “hate” dating, and expect all people to let you down.
You feel trapped with a man who has personal “issues” like drinking, depression, and family conflicts.
You don't want children and have been told you are "broken" because of it.
You are divorced and don’t want to make the same mistake.
You prioritize their partnership and personal growth above traditional milestones and the “shoulds” you have been taught.
These are just some of the problems I can help you with.
I’m Catyana and I’m so happy you found me.
Growing up with a Japanese-Brazilian and Scotch-Irish-Italian heritage, I lived in the "in-between." I was the classic "misfit"—never quite enough of one thing, and always a little too much of the other. Growing up in a family that divorced when I was young, all I wanted was to find love. Yet I didn’t know what that meant or how to do it.
For a long time, I carried a heavy narrative: that I was a disappointment. That feeling followed me into my relationships. I navigated three marriages, often choosing "projects" to save rather than partners. I built a shield of professional achievement and academic titles to hide the fact that, inside, I didn't feel like a "safe existence."
What if you could get your love life onto the track marked “True Love” instead of the one that leads to endless dead ends?
What if all it took was talking personally with a relationship coach who knows how to help you turn your love life – whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or married – around quickly and permanently?
It’s what we all want, and you can have it. I know you can.
Building Possibility Together
As a child of divorced parents, all I wanted was to have a good relationship. But I didn’t know what that looked like or how to be.
That led me to choose and stay with people who did not make me feel good, but who looked “good,” or whom I thought I could “help” be happy (hint: that never works).
I ignored my doubts and pains to accommodate relationships and situations that were bad for me.
Then I discovered Rori Raye’s “Have the relationship you want” programs and listened to them daily for two years. Now I have been happily married for over a decade and feel loved and supported in ways I never thought were possible for me.
Rori Raye developed a system of Tools called Have The Relationship You Want – and I highly recommend them all! I have been using her tools for over a decade and chose to become a Rori Raye certified coach because how much it changed my life for the better. I used them myself to break a pattern of choosing bad matches and staying in relationships too long, and to step into a happy marriage with a wonderful man who wants me to feel good!
Because Rori personally certified me to use her results-focused Tools, I can get results for you quickly.
The outcomes from these tools and a mindset shift will surprise you, as they did for me, and lead you to the great relationship I have now. They also help me get to accept myself in ways I didn’t know were possible. The tools that I use will shock you into knowing your own feelings and help the man you love see you in a completely different light, or magnetize the man you’re about to meet.
I’ll use Rori’s system and my own experience to teach you to embrace yourself and work with your natural personality and everything you’ve learned in your love life up to now – to turn everything you believe about men, love, and relationships on its head and get you what you truly want!
Get to know me through my links below.
Books
Check out my Julia Rawson murder mystery books!
The Julia Rawson murder mystery books are more than fiction; they are a vehicle for exploring complex themes of history, identity, and injustice through the eyes of a forensic artist.
Zazzle Store
Grab some fun merch!
My artistic side is showcased in my Zazzle store, where I sell designs inspired by my forensic artwork. Each piece is a visual representation of my passion.
Youtube Channel
Watch my YouTube Channel!
I extend my mission of education and storytelling to my YouTube channel, where I share my personal journey and insights on living with a mixed identity and the societal and individual implications.
